Tag: gifting

Shopping in the New Normal

My, how different 2019 was. It was chaotic, yes, but chaos brought about by possibilities. Too many possibilities, if you ask me.

And now, in 2020, the world is chaotic, but one filled with uncertainties. When will this end? When do we get back to normal? When will the vaccine come?

Which is why at this day and age of uncertainty, many have turned to the joys of online shopping for a quick release from this maddening world (myself included, so let’s not judge too quickly here ). I was deep in thought as to why Lazada has replaced IG as my favorite phone app and I realized the following:

  1. Online shopping has gifted me with the assurance that something tangible is coming. In a world where we can’t see the end in sight, it is comforting for me to know that “your package has been shipped.”
  2. Online shopping has given me something to look forward to at the end of a long day. As I struggle with work conditions (“Am I safe?” “Are we safe?” “Is the bank open today?”), there is a release of endorphins when I find a package waiting for me on my doorstep. My brother-in-law gave me a very good reason for this high. Getting my stuff delivered feels like I’m receiving a gift. Even though it is technically my money, the package is carefully wrapped and in a box. Now doesn’t that qualify as a present?
  3. Finally, online shopping gives me that sense of normalcy, even for this one bit of activity. I know I still can’t go out. I know I still can’t mingle with my friends. But I can still smile when I find my favorite crafting tool on sale.

Will online shopping replace the actual thing someday? Personally, I still prefer the cardio I get from regular shopping. But it has proven a worthy substitute to me during these troubling times, and for now, it’s a little pocket of joy that I can cling on to =)